he's fast, they're FURIOUS
jackie has had 12 profile pics on facebook since we met and there are only 2 that are not pictures of me or pictures i didn’t take
potential class schedule (aka the classes i’m gonna go to the first day and then drop some)
Being sex-negative doesn’t mean that I fancy myself the chief inspector of the sex police, or that I am personally judging what you do in bed, or that I’m conservative, or that I’m engaging in repressive moralizing. It doesn’t mean that I hate sex workers, or that I want to ban sex work or porn (and, in general, I tend to leave those conversations to women who do sex work while I shut up and listen to what they have to say). It doesn’t mean that I hate sex or that I’m embarrassed by it.
What it does, in fact, mean is that the way you fuck is not “private,” apolitical, or outside the realm of critique. Sex does not happen in a vacuum immune to outside structural influences; in fact, it can (and does) replicate inescapable systems of power and dominance. Being sex-negative means acknowledging that sex, and kink, have nothing intrinsically “good” or “positive” about them (in direct contrast to sex-positive feminists, many of whom argue that sex is an inherent good and that less charitable opinions toward sex are the result of a poisonous, prudish society).
It means understanding that many women have neutral to negative experiences with sex, whether due to a lack of desire or sensitivity or past traumatic experiences or myriad other reasons, or may not wish to have sex at all, and that none of this makes them unhealthy, aberrant, or wrong.
- Jillian Horowitz, xoJane, Unpopular Opinion: I’m A Sex-Negative Feminist (via birdsy-purplefishes)
my sister mary anne used to have a baby doll which she named “bop baby stella” because she liked to hit our baby sister named stella with it
i fixed my hair and photoshopped a pic of the real me onto this selfie
how come i didn’t get acne on my face til i went to college
i did a really bad job cutting my hair
it’s definitely a good idea for me to have turtles because they require a decent amount of care and i need a hobby
every time i talk to my dad i am reminded we are SO similar :^/